The Passing of apache_frulove
Posted 17 January 2012 - 01:02 AM
It is with deep regret and sorrow that we inform you of the passing of our wonderful friend, apache_frulove - real name Pamela.
Pamela was diagnosed with cervical cancer in 2010. She fought a long hard battle. Though in reality, it wasn't that long.
Pamela passed away on Sunday morning, 15th January 2012 surrounded by her family.
It was our mutual love of JBT that brought us all together as friends and from that a beautiful friendship grew.
Our amazing idol John was kind enough to write Pamela a letter sending hope and courage. She read the letter and it became a treasured possession.
We ask that in her honour, each and EVERY person on this forum tell their female loved ones and friends to go have a pap smear. Don't put it off - unfortunately Pamela left it too late to follow up her test results and it cost her her life.
Pamela was an amazing woman who loved the earth and animals. She was a kind soul and the world has lost a very precious person.
Thankyou for your thoughts and please treasure each and every moment with family and friends.
John, if you read this, thankyou from the bottom of our hearts for your letter, it brought joy and love to her heart when she really needed it.
With much love
Devannah, Maz and Rachel
Posted 17 January 2012 - 01:30 AM
Posted 17 January 2012 - 01:25 PM
Paul, much strength and love to you.
Pam, a most kind, warm, passionate, beautiful young woman and mother whose smile is forever etched in my mind.
peace, love and respect
Posted 17 January 2012 - 02:00 PM
I didn't have the pleasure and honor of meeting Pam in person but, as she did for many people, she touched my life in many special ways. Always caring and compassionate for others despite whatever her own troubles were. So passionate about the Earth and all it's creatures and equally passionate about music. She was kind enough to send me some seeds and I have a garden bed full of the herbs she sent, some of which I dried and sent up to her for a healing tea. That garden is called Pam's garden and I will always think of her when I'm tending that patch. We connected on many levels and I miss her dearly. I'm glad, however, that she's no longer in pain and has moved onto discovering what the 'great mystery' of life is. She lives on in the hearts and minds of everyone her beautiful soul touched and through her gorgeous girls. My deepest sympathies to her family and friends at this time.
Posted 18 January 2012 - 08:18 AM
Posted 21 January 2012 - 02:27 PM
Posted 29 January 2012 - 05:24 AM
Posted 20 February 2012 - 10:37 PM
Very sad news to hear. My prayers are with her family and friends in this time of need. From what I knew of her on here.....she was a very cool gal. A very big nature child and great fan of JBT. This community and the JBT fam will forever miss her. Everyone who reads this......you never start living until you are gone.
With endless love, respect, and condolences...
Posted 04 April 2012 - 04:10 AM
Posted 29 April 2012 - 06:01 AM
We shared just a few messages but I coul see she was full of love.
She was just one day younger than me. Devasted.
The best for her man, close friends and little children. Seriously, you have in Spain all the support and help that can be usefull for all of you.
Every now and then I used to remember apache because she uploaded one of my fave John Butler´s songs: Grooving slowly.
Edited by Radiation_Sink, 29 April 2012 - 06:01 AM.
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